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The ups, the downs, the surprises, the opportunities, the secrets and how to do it on your terms, gracefully or even disgracefully!
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Nobody Died. Let's Get Pizza: Aneace Haddad on Joyful Rejuvenation After 50
The language most men use for midlife is wrong. Crisis. Decline. Slow fade. The vocabulary is built around loss — of sharpness, of drive, of relevance. What if that vocabulary is keeping men from seeing what’s actually happening?
Aneace Haddad sold his payment software company across 30 countries at 47, moved from France to Singapore, and started over. Not because he had to. Because something in him had shifted and the old map no longer made sense. What followed was a decade of working out what second adulthood actually is — not what culture says it should be, but what it biologically, neurologically, and psychologically becomes when you stop fighting it.
The Friendship Famine: Why Men Are Starving for Real Connection
For most Australian men, male loneliness and the struggle to make real friends after 50 isn’t something they talk about. It isn’t even something many of them have named. It’s just a background hum — the sense that something is missing, that the mates they used to have have drifted away, that work was where their friendships lived and now that’s changing.
Tanya Koens: sex, intimacy and the midlife body
Sex and intimacy in midlife is one of the least-talked-about subjects in men’s health, and one of the most consequential. Desire shifts. Bodies change. Relationships drift. And most men have never been given the language, let alone the permission, to talk about any of it openly. Clinical and somatic sexologist Tanya Koens has spent nearly two decades in the room with people navigating exactly this territory. In this conversation, she brings warmth, science, and straight-talking insight to a subject that most men quietly wonder about but rarely discuss.
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